Can You Really Fall In Love Online?

by: Vivian Johnson

Some say; absolutely! Other’s say; absolutely not
My personal opinion? I believe you really can fall in love online, but it is rare.

First, we need to examine what it takes to build the foundation for love:

There must be mutual, physical attraction.
If one person worships the physical appearance of the other but the feeling is not
reciprocated? Eventually there will be a problem.

There has to be a certain amount of common interests.
If you love outdoor activities; camping, fishing, hiking, boating, etc. But your “love interest’s” outdoor activity is limited to taking the garbage out...? There’s going to be conflict.

Both must share common beliefs on everyday issues.
You read the paper, watch the news, keep up with current world affairs and you are extremely passionate about it.

Your potential mate couldn’t possibly care less. They are only tapped into the celebrity scene and reality shows.

You are looking forward to a televised debate on governmental issues.
Your mate? Can’t wait to see who gets voted out or who gets the last rose!

If you think this will work? You’re lying to yourself.

Both must have similar outlooks on relationships.
You know you would be committed to the love of your life, no matter how far apart you are. However, your other half believes: If you can’t be with the one you love? Love the one you’re with!

Let me be the first to tell you: It won’t work!

There has to be similar family values.
One of you came from a large family and wants only 1 child, if any.
You are an only child and plan to have a minimum of five children.

You’re setting your relationship up for a fall.

These are just a few issues that need to be addressed before the relationship takes a serious turn.

Please don’t put on blinders. Find the person that shares your beliefs...they are out there. Hurry up and find them!




About The Author
Vivian Johnson

I have been involved in online dating since it's inception!

Yes...I have received a diamond wedding set via FedEx, from a very eligible bachelor.

Wouldn't you like to be one of the most desirable singles on any dating site?